I might be becoming more and more mormon, and maybe that's not bad thing. In fact, it isn't a bad thing. To be honest it had never occurred to me to put service and dating together, probably having something to do with the fact that I'm incredibly selfish. and to avoid plagiarism, the concept of service in dating isn't mine. I've heard it from several sources over the past few weeks, a fireside, in elders quorum, and from a friend. Each time it clicked a little more.
If you know me well you know I listen to motivational stuff all the time. I recently picked up a gem from Tony Robbins, Entering a relationship should not be based on what the other person provides, or can give you, it must be motivated instead by what you can give to them. I like that for one reason in particular it gives me all the reason I need to work harder to become a better person.
I am blessed to be surrounded by many people who are better than me in many ways. Although it can be hard noticing my inadequacies, I cherish these relationships because as I emulate their behavior I get closer and closer to becoming a good guy. When i say a 'good guy' what I mean is this: when I'm not around and people are talking about me, I want people to be able to say, yeah, I know Scott, he's a good guy.
So, with that in mind, I'm gonna change my approach to dating... just a little.
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